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In love, there is acceptance of oneself, of one's body, of accepting oneself as a black woman. Accepting the shape of her body, her textured hair, her breasts.
I was very lucky to have grown up with benevolent parents who made few judgments about my body, who did not subject my body to (waxing, thinness, etc.)
I have a small chest.
It's more visible, let's say nowadays, because I've gained weight. But they are still small breasts. I think I’m a B cup. I say I think because I haven’t worn a bra since my college days. Having a small chest, I never understood the usefulness of wearing bras.
I never wanted my boobs to be bigger or smaller. I have a vision of my body which is precious. And I don't want to distort it.
I want to honor my ancestors. And look like them.
I love myself. I love my body. If I feel insecure I wonder why. Is it really my insecurities?
Since I was little, I've always had this self-confidence that helped me not to question my beauty. I try to protect myself from the insecurities that others can project onto me.
I consider that what I wear on me, clothes, jewelry are like prayers (unreligious) amulets. They are objects that carry meaning and strength.
That’s how I feel about Elppin.
I carry with me a message every day that makes me proud and makes sense to me.
In moments a little down, Elppin jewelry recharges me. It makes me realize that I am not alone in this process. It is a heartache that we share and the fact of wearing Elppin jewelry is a poignant action. A message that we each deliver by associating Elppin and ourselves.
I wear Elppin jewels proudly and convey its message through my vision. Every action has a meaning for me. Nothing is random in what I wear or consume.
It's time to honor yourself and no longer be ashamed or hide.
It's time to honor yourself and no longer be ashamed or hide.
Wendy takes her brooch to the river with her.